Conflict Resolution: Exploring the resilience
Resilience is the ability of an individual against adversity, to keep on fighting, with doses of perseverance, tenacity, positive attitude and actions that advance against current and overcome them. -E. E. Chavez Yturralde (2006) - you I have great news: We are strong! studying in the quiet of the morning I found a very interesting article on 'resilience to overcome the stress "in an online journal. And it motivated me to investigate this exciting topic last
does focus on our strengths and not on the injury! We talked a bit about this in
"Strong to lose" . Today we will discuss from a more scientific, but always looking to provide tools to see problems from a different perspective.
will be many years dealing with injuries, exploring and selling what pushes me to seek better ways of curing it, or will it always keep the image of my father, so strong even after passing the second war, to see die so many of his men, and always smiling.
Maybe so, but I like the design the emphasis on the wound. For me, the only injuries that should be emphasized are those of the Lord Jesus, understanding this, I wrote
"the wound that has" you can consult.
I do not like the statement that we are a product of our pasado.Es denying that God does new things every day, and that made me strong enough to learn to live
counting my blessings and not my loss. I always taught that the emphasis will be where I place. In what I'm missing or what I have. The glass half empty or half full.
What I need me full of guilt and limitations, and to some extent tied me to live in yesterday. My strengths, what I have with me today so I can build and move forward.
Resilience, the ability to return to the original state of calm after the storm. Something like memory material that returns to its original condition. The ability to not be destroyed by the hurricane. The courage to get up again and again and learn from the defeats. Rising from the ashes. Count your blessings not shortcomings. Find that we are strong. Knowing that we have weapons inside by the Loving God who created us to be better after each conflict.
I leave you with this interesting definitions of words and with this thought: If we have an Almighty God, which leads us in His palm prints, who cares as the apple of His eyes, if we abide under the Shadow of the Almighty God, because I always see the magnitude of the problem and not confident because I can walk the God of the Universe has made me strong to walk in this world and do well?.
Do the right thing every day, loves God and others, and count your blessings to believe that "everything you can through Christ who strengthens you." Edith
DEFINITIONS OF RESILIENCE Resilience is a dynamic process which results in positive adaptation in situations of great adversity.
Luthar (2000) The
resilience distinguishes two components: the resistance to destruction, that is, the ability to protect its own integrity under pressure and, moreover, beyond endurance, the ability to forge a vital behavior positive despite difficult circumstances
Vanistendael (1994)
resilience has been characterized as a set of social processes and intra-psychic possible to have a "healthy" in half insane. These processes are performed over time, giving lucky combinations of attributes of children and their social and cultural environment.
Rutter (1992)
ability to rebound from adversity, adapt, recover and access to meaningful and productive life.
ICCB, Institute on Child and Family Resilience (1994)
The art of overcoming adversity with his feet on Mother Earth. Avecia
Jorge Montoya (2006)
human capacity to cope with life's adversities, overcome and even be transformed by them.
Grotberg (1995)
Resilience means a combination of factors that allow a child to a man, face and overcome the trials and tribulations of life, and build on them.
Suárez Ojeda (1995)
Resilience is a global response in which they bring into play the protection mechanisms, understanding these are not contrary to the valence of risk factors, but that dynamic that allows the individual to emerge stronger from adversity, respecting the specific situation and personal characteristics.
Infante (1997)
WHAT IS RESILIENCE? - A note from Mr. Rolando Martin
Boris Cyrulnik, a member of a Ukrainian Jewish family living in France during World War II, escaped after six years of a concentration camp that killed his entire family. Went wandering various centers and host families until the age of eight public assistance what settled on a farm. This man might well have become an unfortunate marginal, is now a prominent neurologist and psychiatrist, professor at the University of Var in France and head of the Hospital of Toulon. It is the main precursor of the implementation of the concept of resilience to human behavior.
The word resilience comes from the fields of physics and refers to certain bodies ability - basically strength and flexibility - to withstand a crash and not break. From his own experience of life, Cyrulnik began investigating the stories of people who, having experienced traumatic events in childhood, yet managed to obtain adult personality functioning and relatively stable. And yet in many cases, such as his own, came to rethink the story of a hapless life through their creative attitude and contribution to the benefit of others.
"Misfortune is never pure. Nor happiness. But just become the story, give meaning to the suffering and understand much later, how we transform a disgrace in wonder, as every man wounded, is forced to transformation ... " the author says in his book "The beauty of pain", supported by numerous historical examples to show that a battered child does not necessarily lead to a failed existence.
Source: www.educared.org..ar
Resilience, an option for dealing with stress ... By Mariana Otero
The burden, lack of recognition and violent situations plaguing. Resilience aims to develop strengths difficult or traumatic situations.
The feeling of being overwhelmed, lack of recognition and of perspectives, situations of violence are some of the promoters of stress that can become the prelude to psychiatric folders in the thousands in the province of Cordoba ...
Out of this situation is often too complex, but resilience may have some answers.
Resilience is the capacity of all human beings to develop strengths in difficult situations or traumatic.
"Sets look at what you have and not what we lack. Working from healthy parts of the individual instead of the sick and works with process, "said Adelia Setto, president of the Indigo Foundation ...
What we can is the key ... "As a person discovers what he can do, can positively influence the other. One key is to transform the mechanisms of defense against a difficult situation in protection strategies ", pose from Indigo.
Working in this way involves self-knowledge, expand personal consciousness. Learn about their own potential, in turn, leads to self explain. Thus, it is possible to discern when there is an external threat and when you can do something from within their own individual, the situation changes.
Harnessing the potential ... emotions, body and intellect and all the baggage healthy individual who has not yet revealed.
not magic. By contrast,
the person should dare to look inside. see is a personal decision what to do in the midst of catastrophe. Beneficiaries are the environment. Setto ensures that harnessed the potential of a person not nest the seeds of violence.
"Prisons are full of people who did not have a guardian of resilience to watch and help them harness their potential. And the neuropsychiatric, too. Postponed because power is not lost, it becomes violence, "said Setter. He adds that the commitment to the development of human potential is a commitment to peace because the human potential developed does not need violence. Will
change. Resilience is tied to the willingness to change. It's like scientists say ... when they put the example of the power plant loses when the shadow but that does not stop there, stretched to where the light is. This is the first step to being better.
"I'm not saying that one does not need health care, but care lavished only yourself"
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